Re: [Open] Risky action missing when Sims says it's ready for it
From what I experienced, some risky actions needs to be triggered by selecting a particular action bubbles "in the right time". Like in A Romantic Meal events, the second risky action won't appear unless your sim interact with restaurant employee after the second time they say "I'm ready". Cmiiw. I think some career and hobbies are like that too. They need right timing, actions or even right furnitures to be triggered.
I usually try every actions in the event to check which action bubble trigger risky action, then repeat it again after the first one done to check which one trigger the second one and so on. I didn't always find it at first try. Once I found the pattern, i can choose more rewarding actions then continue to triggering actions so the event progress faster.