I don't have much to remember since Sims 4 is my first. My eldest brother, however, got The Sims when it first came out and has played all of it apparently. I can still vaguely remember seeing him play The Sims 2 once. Anyway, I jumped into Sims 4 by chance. I'm not even sure how it happened. I must have seen an add. I was impressed by how far the graphics had come. (I'm afraid the simulation designs for Sims 2 and 3 creeped and still creep me out. ^_^0)
I tried the CAS demo mode first. That sold me enough to try the actual game out. As it goes, I knew nothing about the game. (Yeah, I didn't watch my eldest brother play... kind of hard to do that when it is on the PC and he's playing the game when I'm crushed with homework or it is the middle of the night.) Actually, when I had asked my brother about it, back when he was on Sims 2, his explanation pretty much made me conclude, "I'm struggling with real life as it is and it is *censor*. I don't have time to control the lives of an entire virtual family!" (Think of tamogatchi nightmares.)
So, yeah... I jumped in blindly. My first play was depressing as heck as I knew nothing of cheats outside the hint given by the game about kaching and motherlode. Using only that cheat and not knowing it could be used again, I played the game without any cheats. As said, it was depressing as heck. My Sim had no life. She only ate salads, read in her free time and went to work. I felt horrible for her, especially when she'd be at work and by the end she had no energy to the point I feared she wouldn't make it back home. Not knowing I couldn't even give it to her until she returned home, I purchased a Sleep Potion via perk points. Nope... That had been a waste.
I didn't know about birthdays and she only had one contact who asked her out. I didn't know that going meant my Sim had to cater to the other and ensure the NPC had a great time. I didn't know cakes had to be baked by my Sim. So, they met at the park, had a nice, long conversation and the party was over. The "friend" made my Sim feel worse and I thought the NPC was a *censor*. My Sim tried really hard (considering I didn't know a think about how birthdays worked) and kept them both in positive moods the entire time.
As for my Sim's birthdays... I didn't mind as she started as a young adult and a missed birthday isn't that big of a deal as you get older. When she became an elder, however... Gawd I felt so horrible for her and thought her "friend" was a still a *censor*. In the end, my Sim lived hard, lonely life. She had no time for friends, worked, got promoted, read and then on her last day she picked up a book, was heading to her bed to read and-
She didn't even make it to the bed! She fell to the floor and died!
When that first play ended, I was left really stunned and empty. "Why the heck do people like this game? This is the most depressing game I've ever played!" Thankfully, I decided to go to the net and research. My second time around was a great deal more enjoyable. 'Still, in that research... dang, I wish I had been able to play the Sims 2 at times. (My life was too busy and *censor* back then, however. I was sleeping on the living room couch, battling with a mental illness that had yet to be properly diagnosed and a ton of other crap...)
I wish EA would mesh to two - Sims 2 and Sims 4. Sims 4 as it is, but add in all the fun, quirky, crazy stuff from Sims 2. I want my Sims to be able to repair a car and either use it or sell it. If they did the driving system like they did in Sims 2, that would be great. I could go on a rampage of how to mesh the two games.