I’m having the same issue. It was working perfectly fine for my first bunch of games with cross-play disabled but now I can’t get into a game. If I enable cross play it instantly puts me in a match. My theory is it might be because of the skill based matchmaking system. If you play well on your first few games on switch it will no longer let you play against most of the switch user base as almost everyone is new and bad at the game. So it puts you in a queue making you wait for enough players of a similar skill to fill a lobby, but there aren’t currently enough of those for consistent games. I’ve got quite a high K/D from my first bunch of games so when I enable cross play I get put in lobbies with people who have played thousands of hours of apex. I’m guessing that maybe the system thinks I’m an experienced player on a smurf account or something.
I'm having the same issue the only way I can play a game on Switch now is by using Japan servers for Switch only games. I hope they can fix this and disable crossplay by default so Switch lobbies are more full with other Switch players.
