Can We Sort the Balancing?

Again, multiple back to back rounds where enemy teams are winning by hundreds of points, with the odd win that is won by less than 90, often thanks to the clock running out. Allied teams have absolutely zero awareness of enemy flag captures, staunchly refuse to do anything even when told. They don't revive, they barely cap, they don't defend, and they don't destroy vehicles. Every vehicle I had in the last few rounds has been bombarded with rockets within seconds, and every time you roll up and someone is two feet away, they suddenly have explosives on them. If you're on foot, they all have health, ammo, and beacons. Genuinely is like players are swapping up loadouts on the fly without any resupply crates, and even after team mix ups, its still ridiculously unbalanced. 

In that round we won and I miracolusly survived in my tank, but not without every enemy again having AT, explosives, or Lis rockets. Yet somehow also all possessing beacons to spawn on after they lost all of their flags. In amongst two allied EBLs, all anti-armour grenades and rockets were focused on me. Multiple times enemies ran at me over great distance to try throwing C5. Why is so much effort put into destroying my vehicle, and not other vehicles?