Console only (non-crossplay) lobbies are dead - current gen

I’m a ps5 user in Australia and it’s impossible to get a game now without crossplay. First week I could and it played so much better console only.  Now there’s just no games in any mode without a server browser there’s just no chance of ever getting one .I hate crossplay it plays like crap for me but am forced to do it if I want to play the game at all but it’s really not worth it. I should have just got the ps4 version so at least it might have had some player base.