Any ideas how to get the Origin In game overlay to turn off?

My friend purchased BF2042 as a gift for me while it was on sale on Steam, the problem I am having is that even though I have Origin in game overlay turned off in the Origin launcher when steam launches the game the Origin in game overlay is on, so when Origin friends come online it minimizes the game to my desktop, and once that happens I will inevitably end up with an out of memory error on my GTX 1070 within 20 minutes to an hour. I have tried EA Technical support and they either did not understand what the problem is or they flat out didn't read it and just assumed I was having the same issue most people they are encountering are having. Explained that I just wanted to know if there was a way to get the Origin in game overlay to be turned off when it is launched from Steam, and the solution given was to clear my browser cache, and flush my DNS cache two thing of which I will not be doing, not that it's a big deal to do them, but that would be for connectivity issues not for turning off a client setting when it is launched from another client.    SO, does anyone have any idea how to get this done? I was thinking that if I add the Origin client to my Steam library as a non-steam game I might be able to do this to work around it, but I don't want to deal with disassociating the Origin Client from Steam once it's finish and I would NEVER launch Origin from steam for any other reason so I would rather try this as a vey last ditch effort.