Redsec lobbies not filling up

Matchmaking finds a game, and more often than not it fills up to half, then people start quitting. At some point the server stops finding players. If you stay in the lobby, everybody eventually quits and you  are left alone.
Entered 6 lobbies with my buddy tonight. They never filled up. We guit the game. Great game night.
There has to be feedback on what the hell the server is doing. Or maybe just make players enter the lobby when there are enough players???

Playing on PS5 with crossplay off. And no I will not ever be enabling crossplay as long as its not input type restricted.