Timed Out Error 0:85008S

i've been unable to play for the last week because once i start my game, the game gives me a "unable to connect to servers" error, with a giant error code (0:85008S:2012326414O:65541Q), and then, once i reach the main menu of a game and attempt to join a match via matchmaking, the process stops a quarter into the loading, freezes, and then switches to a black screen with the games logo for 2 minutes, before giving me an error and sending me back to the menu, the error seems to be a mix of "inactivity" and of "overtime" for loading, i've tried giving my computer a static IP on my network, checked game files, connected to the EA app despite the game being on steam, reconnecting my EA account to steam, reinstalling the game, and nothing worked