10 years ago
Can't Romance Sera
i am unable to start a romance with Sera no matter how high her approval is and certain quest wont start more me (such as Bring me the heart of snow white). i have also noticed that she does not gain...
How far are you in the storyline?
Your class and race act as modifiers. Sera is significantly easier to romance as a qunari warrior/rogue than as a dalish mage. That's why in some playthroughs you can start a romance shortly after reaching Skyhold, while in other playthroughs you need to porgress much further.
I'm about to start the quest Wicked eyes and wicked hearts. I'm a Female, human, Rouge and I've made very possible choice to gain the most approval possible. Its also worth mentioning that this is my second play through. in my first play through i beat the game and she never gave me the option to romance her. Just kept saying we need to travel around more.
What system are you on? If PC, are you using any mods? If so, what?
Sera doesn't like to share, so if you're even a little bit in a relationship with someone else, she might decide you're taken and that's that.
Also, choosing the choices to gain the most approval possible means you're not always choosing the romance choices, which means the game thinks you're not interested.
If she wants to travel more, then do that. After a while you should be able to talk to her about it again. If you're only starting the Winter Ball quest thing, you're not all that far in the game, so you mightn't be able to get super far in the romance (can't remember what you can do when).
If you're at max approval with a follower, it seems they stop gaining more approval when you do things they like (not sure about this, it's just what I've observed in my playthroughs). You can still lose it, however.
You can also try a repair of the game if all else fails. Pretty quick and easy to do.
OK, I now can't even read what I've written, so I'm gonna leave it there. 😛 Good luck.
I'm playing on PC with no mods. I've flirted with Cullen once or twice but did not try to start a romance with him. i always picked the heart/romance option with Sera. i tried a repair, no change. im still playing and im almost at the final mission, still can't romance her. i know i would be able to romance her as a qunari but i don't want to do that. Maybe i cant flirt with anyone at all? i don't know, that would be weird if that's the case.