just a different perspective on gameplay, it is bad and i cuss at the screen too !. but when your winning, watch the opponent you will notice the lag they are experiencing as well. late tackles crap passes etc. you get it some games and opponent gets it some games. hell some days you get it all the games you play. some days rivals is bad, some days champs is **bleep**e, some days friendlies are. it is woeful. one thing that is consistent is, it will fluctuate what you get on the day. What would be good to see is, the game played in a local lan type environment without the internet to blame and see how it plays.
couple of basics to try, controller has to be wired, console cant be wireless/wifi or you gotta learn to live with wild lag fluctuations. monitor and not a tv. and only recently i have seen this via tests, even with a 250mbps link, soon as another 1 or 2 devices do something on the internet, the console will experience a slowdown in latency/speed massively. this can be something you haven't thought about like a camera monitoring or a mobile.
sometimes its not the download but the upload, uploads are usually slower and this can get congested easily.
All of this to get some parity, but all in all you will still see crap. higher the div you go the worse it gets etc etc.