H2H Squads Kicks to Main Menu

I’m suffering this glitch I even bought an adapter to switch my servers to Los Angeles because I currently live in Japan so every time I got on the game with my friend and played head to head squads it would kick me out saying “Connection of peer was disconnected” even tho I’m the one getting kicked out and the game starts as soon as I get kicked. So I searched things up and people tend to use vpns etc etc to be able to play on US servers, so I did that I worked everything used a LAN cable put the Los angles vpn connected to my PlayStation and it still kicked me out saying my peer did but in reality it was me. This is very frustrating because whenever I played Madden 23 with the same friend it never lagged and I lived in South Korea then so what’s the difference. He lives in Hawaii it’s been the same since whenever I lived in Korea he lived in Hawaii now I’m in Japan he’s still in Hawaii and now all of a sudden I kept getting kicked out like what? Why? I paid all this money to play with friends for what? It don’t even work anymore because of some bug EA hasn’t fixed and I’ve seen this bug happens even for people that both live in the same state. Please I just wanna game with my friend that’s all.