game disconnect nightly...

We all know how to use the internet dude. Its the terrible EA servers. Why am I getting saddled with the loss EVERYTIIME there is a disconnection. How does EA decide who gets the win and loss in competitive modes. I NEVER EVER actually lose internet or PSN connection but ill be handedly beating someone by 5...all the sudden connection loss, that guy gets a win...somehow and I get a loss. I have NEVER in 8 years of playing HUT religiously made it through a champs run (20 games) with out at least 2 or 3 of these happening. Then guess what I dont get the rewards because I had 4 games I was winning that go down as losses. I need you to explain to me how it chooses who gets the win and loss. Ive tried so so so hard for years and years to get  a 20-0 champs run, sunk thousands of dollars into HUT and EVERY TIME I get railroaded by "disconnections". How did i lose connection if it takes me right back to the HUT menu. If I didnt have connection wouldnt it boot me back to the main game menu?