[FIXED] Sims will constantly "Check toddler" & it disturbs gameplay

This is actually one of the most annoying issues in a fantastic game. I recently followed the advice of another poster, as I had stopped getting babies altogether because of this issue. I make all toddlers independent and spread a lot of food on the floor. When they wake up I have them pick up the fruit and eat, while the parents stand and watch. When they are tired I have them go to sleep. No good night story. No high chair. It is sad but everything else is too frustrating. The only thing the parents have to care for is bathing, and even here I need to play the toddler and ask the parent of a bath. When I play the grownup and click the toddler or the bathtub, there's high chances it won't work.