This is both excessive and inappropriate and targeting wrong sim.
My sim aged to young adult and moved out, she's now living on her own. She traveled to visit her parents and siblings. One of the teen siblings is in romantic relationship with Sidney Price. The played sim is just friends with Sidney, no romance whatsoever.
Teen Sidney rushed to the house, and asked my young adult to go to prom with him. Obviously I said no. Then my sim went inside to bake a cake and before the cake was ready, Sidney had asked her to the prom two more times. I left after eating a slice, so no idea if it would have kept on going.
So in this case the amount of prom-request popups was excessive. It was targeting the played sim instead of the currently-unplayed sim living in the lot the played sim was visiting. It was also age-inappropriate since the targeted played sim was young adult, and Sidney is a teen.
Copypasting this in a couple of threads since it has several separate issues all together.
Same sim, same problem, although I guess this isn't inappropriate, just weird. The sim's father keeps visiting her to ask her to be his best friend. 'n considering he's best friends with the sim's mother, I keep saying no. So now my sim has Creeped Out sentiment about her own father. Not ideal.
I could live with the frequency (although it is annoying) but I can't deal with Sims busting into my house at all hours to ask to be BFFs or go to prom. As to the inappropriateness, I had an adult sim that my toddler had never met walk into my house uninvited to ask my toddler to be his BFF. This keeps happening and the toddler now has negative relationships with an increasing number of adults in town because they aren't going to be BFFs and the toddlers can't apologize.
