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Re: [FIXED] Merging households through dialog doesn't proceed

The same bug happened to me too and I've investigated a little.

Game does not accept that you merge your household with another one that has not a house. I've discovered this bug when I've tried to invite in my family the gardener and then it has happened the same with random sims, but I have been able to invite the Vatore family in Vladislaus household.

@Elly3058I've noticed that the game actually does not freeze, just does not do anything. You should be able to solve the situation just letting your sim join the other household (yes, the opposite is admitted), but then the game will obviusly ask you to buy a house for your family and all the collection progresses of your household will be lost. It is really annoying and I actually hope that will be fixed soon.

Edit: at the moment the only real solution is to merge the households (no house -> with house) through Manage wordls.

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  • crinrict's avatar
    crinrict
    Hero+
    2 years ago
    @Heautontimoru And you have the problem with any means trying to merge two households ? I just tried moving in a Sim that didn't live anywhere through the household manager and had no issues doing so.

    Could you please list the packs you own ? What platform are you playing on ?
  • boardgamebeccy's avatar
    boardgamebeccy
    2 years ago

    This is what's happening to me! The sim wasn't living in the world and that's where I ran into the issue.

    For the it happens with every household in this situation

  • PixieSimm1's avatar
    PixieSimm1
    2 years ago

    Every single time I try to merge households together in rentals it never works the game always freezes and it happens everytime, I've resorted to just going through manage worlds but it's not at all the same.

  • Heautontimoru's avatar
    Heautontimoru
    Hero
    2 years ago

    It should be the same bug reported in can’t merge households. Take a look and if you want tell us if it is the same for you, if you have noticed something else or there are differences between your situation and the already reported ones.

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  • tiialeppanen's avatar
    tiialeppanen
    2 years ago

    It is the same problem for me too. 

    -- This appeared after "For Rent"

    -- The Sim I want to merge into the current household is not in the world at the moment. 

    -- If I move my current SIM to another SIM's household which is not in the world atm, that works. 

    When the dialog to split/merge households appears, I can switch the sims between the households (and their money). When pressing the checkmark button to confirm, nothing happens, and the button becomes inactive. The dialog is not possible to close, because the close button on the top-right corner is inactive.

    The only way to recover from this bug is to either
    1) close the game and not save the progress, or
    2) move into the not-current-household which is not in the world, and move back to the same house right away (and decorate the house again), and lose the ownership of the rental houses.


    I play with Mac and I have the following extras:
    -- City Living, Cottage Living, Discover University, Eco Lifestyle, Get Famous, Get to Work, Get Together, Growing Together, High School Years, Horse Ranch, Island Living, Seasons, Snowy Escape, Cats & Dogs, For Rent

    -- My Wedding Stories, Dream Home Decorator, Realm of Magic, Jungle Adventure, Parenthood, Vampires, Dine Out, Spa Day, Outdoor Retreat

    -- Home Chef Hustle, Tiny Living, Laundry Day, Toddler, Fitness, Vintage Glamour, Kids Room, Movie Hangout, Cool Kitchen, Perfect Patio.

    -- Desert Lux Kit, Blooming Rooms Kit, Industrial Loft Kit, Bust the Dust Kit

    -- Holiday Celebration

  • kennedyeve's avatar
    kennedyeve
    2 years ago

    YOU ARE A LIFE SAVER!!!! I hadn’t save and was so scared to lose my recent progress!

    The sim I was trying to have move into my house was classified as “not currently in world.” I moved my whole household to her side, sold my house but kept the furnishings, then just rebought it and put all my stuff back! Kind of a pain, but 1000 times better than losing hours of progress!!! Thank you!

  • cray-zjaybird's avatar
    cray-zjaybird
    2 years ago

    I have tried to do this and merge the "currently not in world" with the ones at my house, but the sims that I want to join cannot be found in my households. I can only invite or see these sims by inviting them to the current lot via sims in my active household. Do you know of that happening, too? That in addition to the can't join household problem since my update has been causing a lot of issues for me. Has there been any solution to either problem? 

  • Klarafardiga's avatar
    Klarafardiga
    2 years ago
    @Heautontimoru Mine does not let me exit the moving action. The only way to proceed is to exit the game. So all progress is lost if I haven't saved beforehand.
  • Heautontimoru's avatar
    Heautontimoru
    Hero
    2 years ago

    @Klarafardiga  ha scritto:
    @HeautontimoruMine does not let me exit the moving action. The only way to proceed is to exit the game. So all progress is lost if I haven't saved beforehand.

    Have you already tried to move your sim in the other's household? Doing so should unlock the confirmation button. Let me know.

  • I tried it the way you suggested (Manage Worlds) and it worked. I was able to add my Spouse to my household. It so happened that he did not have a House and My sim did.

  • ChrinnieSims's avatar
    ChrinnieSims
    11 months ago

    Product: The Sims 4
    Platform:PC
    Which language are you playing the game in? English
    How often does the bug occur? Every time (100%)
    What is your current game version number? 1.103.250.1020
    What expansions, game packs, and stuff packs do you have installed? I don't own: Journey to Batuu, Greenhouse Haven, Bathroom Clutter, Everyday Clutter, Pastel Pop, Decor to the Max, Little Campers
    Steps: How can we find the bug ourselves? Merging a household
    What happens when the bug occurs? The button to save a household merger is grayed out, also the button to exit the merger screen is grayed out while doing it in game (like after a wedding).  I can go to manage worlds and move in sims that way, but that's a work around.  
    What do you expect to see? The in-game household merge to actually function properly.  After spending over $1,100 on this game I expect it to do its basic functions without having to resort to work around all the time.
    Have you installed any customization with the game, e.g. Custom Content or Mods? It happens whether or not mods are installed.  If it were a mod-related problem, I would've removed that mod.
    Did this issue appear after a specific patch or change you made to your system? Definitely
    Please describe the patch or change you made. For Rent broke it.  It happened after I added For Rent to my game a few months ago.

  • Gingerxyz's avatar
    Gingerxyz
    Rising Vanguard
    10 months ago
    My sim's girlfriend just asked to move in, I said yes, the household merge/split box popped up, and yup, it's stuck, cannot proceed, cannot cancel out. Very frustrating.

    Game version: 1.105.345.1020
    Packs are: EPs: Get to Work, City Living, Cats & Dogs, Seasons, Get Famous, Island Living, Discover University, Eco Lifestyle, Cottage Living, High School Years, Growing Together, Horse Ranch
    GPs: Outdoor Retreat, Parenthood, Jungle Adventure, StrangerVille, Dream Home Decorator, Werewolves
    SPs: Luxury Party Stuff, Romantic Garden Stuff, Backyard Stuff, Laundry Day Stuff, My First Pet Stuff, Moschino Stuff, Tiny Living Stuff, Nifty Knitting Stuff, Paranormal Stuff
    Kits: Fashion Street Kit, Desert Luxe Kit
    And the free Holiday Celebration Pack
  • Easiest fix is to move your sim into the partner's household instead, then move that household back into the lot you want them to live in.

  • Ninner05's avatar
    Ninner05
    Rising Traveler
    10 months ago

    @crinrictThe issue isn't moving households via Manage Worlds. The issue occurs when asking a sim or being asked to move in together. The game basically freezes when you get the pop-up and try to transfer sims and funds between households. I can Alt-F4 to save and exit my game before I lose any progress, but it's a really annoying bug. I have also seen a Sims 4 Youtuber, James Turner, have this issue as well. I am also having this issue across multiple saves on PC, including a new save.

  • maiararv's avatar
    maiararv
    10 months ago

    I have had a similar issue. I keep moving them back and forth using the arrows from one household to the other, transferring money, the sound of “ok” indicates that everything is working but it won’t exit the merge families screen.