When I clicked into the Bheeda family to play, the Rasoyas came over for the welcome wagon. I made over Geeta, and now I've created a monster. She will not leave Arun alone. She's CONSTANTLY calling and asking to come over or asking him out on dates. No matter how many times we refuse, she just shows up and we send her home. What the actual you know....????
Is "Ask to Just Be Friends" an option? That should immediately make them stop asking your Sim out.
Sims, alas, can be super clueless about their social interactions, so they might still randomly show up without calling and try to "hang out." You might need to be mean if that's not acceptable.
If you never interact with them the relationship will fade over time and your Sim's eager "friend" will forget about them. (Unless your Sim has "Beloved" from completing Friend of the World, that is.) You could also arrange a lethal accident for their "friend," if that suits your play style.
(And yes, the phone request for a date while the caller is standing right there? "THE CALL IS COMING FROM INSIDE THE HOUSE!")
@ MadameNordica My girlfriend made us as Sims and we became friends with the Goths. For some reason, Bella was obsessed with Sim me. She would do the same thing you are describing: stalk, call all the time, ask the sim on dates, etc. My girlfriend has our sims married and Bella still does this. The worst thing is once, my Sim was asleep in bed and Bella woke him up to yell at him for being unfaithful or something. My girlfriend was like "WTF?!" Bella would ask to come over or just come over to visit all the time and only talk to my sim and practically ignored my girlfriend's sim.
