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xochiquetzl_xkvn
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1 day ago
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[PH] Only Small Relationship boost for Polite Introductions

Hi! Previously, my adults who have the Good Manners trait were able to use the Polite Introduction social and get a really big boost to relationship. I recently used it and had disappointing results:

This is worse than it would be if he used Cheerful Introduction. Googling and sites like Carl's Guides say that it previously started out relationships at 50% (barring other bonuses that make it EVEN BETTER).

Please, give us back our rewards for having polite children!

Edit By crinrict: Adjusted Title

  • Hello,

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    EA_Solaire
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    1 day ago

    Hello,

    This is currently functioning as designed. Please feel free to provide your feedback on this design choice here if you'd like.

    Thanks!

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    xochiquetzl_xkvn
    Seasoned Ace
    1 day ago

    Hi crinrict!

    I removed my mods and tried it repeatedly on random strangers after noticing the change, then quit without saving. I’m playing on PC. I'm not seeing a thread tag for that; I suppose I'm still used to the old forums?

    Hi EA_Solaire,

    Carl’s Sims 4 Guides says:

    "Good Manners Trait - Reward for High Manners

    “Sims with Good Manners won't want to do any gross manners interactions, at least not in front of anyone. They also have a new Polite Introduction and can gain friendly relationships faster. Good Mannered Sims can also Offer Gratitude to the Host of a house they are visiting. They may get good moodlets from the polite introduction, but that's a side attraction. The increase to friendly relationship gain is a whopping 50%, so this is one you'll want to aim toward achieving for your children. All other benefits from the good manners trait seem to stem from simply not being a Sim with bad manners and all the negatives that entails when dealing with relationships and a clean home.”

    https://www.carls-sims-4-guide.com/gamepacks/parenthood/values.php

    If you look at the screenshot above, the relationship boost from using Polite Introduction was worse than what I would have received from using Cheerful Introduction. This is a noticeable difference from behavior previously, and really discourages me from even trying to gain good character values for my children.

    In other words: With respect, you are mistaken. It is NOT working as intended. If you look at this video you can see a much larger boost from Polite Introduction than you see in the image above: 

    https://youtu.be/qR0DNuGABXk?si=bSbTRRSOF5dYCM7Q&t=220

    Relevant quote from the video: "...instantly putting the relationship bar at about 30% full."

    At the risk of being annoying, I have 5,767 hours playing this game. I think I can notice a change in game mechanics.

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