Is this the household you're referring to?
If so, then I was able to find it by simply searching for your EA ID, and checking the "Include Custom Content" option, which I have highlighted in red, so your household is definitely on the gallery. Any uploads that are flagged as modded, will be hidden by default, unless you select the option to include it in your search.
As to why it's flagged as modded, well, that I'm unsure about. I removed all DLC items, and selected base game assets only, and when I went to save it to my library, it still showed up as modded. You could possibly try a game repair, but I honestly doubt that will make any difference, since that isn't going to change anything about your save/tray files.
I'd suggest posting on Answers HQ, or alternatively, you can send an email to EA Support. Try to provide as much information as possible, including all the troubleshooting steps you have tried so far. Sorry I couldn't be more helpful, but I hope you're able to resolve the issue!
Yes, that is exactly the family I meant. It's so strange I'm not seeing it on my end. I will definitely quadruple check my settings again, as I would really break my heart to lose them. (He was abducted by aliens his second day, coming back from the Spice Festival. lol)
Thank you for all your help, and for sharing that screen shot. I appreciate all the time you've spent assisting me with this, Plumbeeb.
