ebstokstad The option should be on your sim. However, if the sims are already leaving, the option probably won't be there. It allows you to send home all unwanted visitors. Sometimes it will be there, sometimes not though. If you play with mods, MCCC has an option to send specific sims home too. However, I forget if it will work on sims you can't click on or not.
But backtracking a bit, you're on vacay in Granite Falls. When I vacation there, every time I travel there, there are always 2 sims standing in front of the rental where I'm staying. They are OR role sims usually. Most often one will be the park ranger or a bear. And GF always has a lot of walk by sims strolling around which are there when I arrive at the rental. But when I get the extra sims on arrival, they always leave. Most of the time they walk away and other times they just disappear. It seems that many, if not all of the sims in GF are really hard to click on too.
So, it sounds like you have the same thing going on except the extra sims don't leave. To me, that means there is a difference between games. It's not a bug or else it would happen for me, and others would be reporting it too. So, a couple questions:
Does it happen in Selvadorada too? Or any of the other worlds where you have vacation rental lots?
Do you play with any mods, and more specifically any mods that changes how the vacation worlds work?
Hope this helps