Feeling hurt by someone nearby...

"AnnLee87;c-17728538" wrote:
Don't attempt the seven toddler challenge. They all got sad and were all crying when they should have been playing in snow.

"SheriSim57;c-17728922" wrote:
Could it have something to do with the new patch to fix the patch that caused crashing? Or did it happen before?

"kostasmpi;c-17728674" wrote:

"justdancerebecca;d-983944" wrote:
Does anyone know what exactly triggers this? My toddler gets this moodlet almost constantly...mostly during friendly conversation, but sometimes even when she is idle it pops up unwarranted. She apparently feels that way towards her mother, who pretty much never said anything unfriendly to begin with. She's perpetually sad because of it now, regardless of what mom says or does to make things better. :|
https://i.imgur.com/gl42T78.png

I see that the toddler is independent. Maybe the mother is always helping her?

"invisiblgirl;c-17730461" wrote:

No mods at all for me, and it was happening with my 'independent' toddler. However, there did not seem to be any trigger to it - she practically woke up with it one morning. And I agree that it started after this week's patch. I wouldn't mind it if there is a real reason for it, such as her mother helping her with something instead of letting her do it herself, but if that's the case, the sentiment should be better-described.

"invisiblgirl;c-17730461" wrote:

"Beardedgeek;c-17729108" wrote:
Are you guys having mods?
Because I have NO weird experiences with Sentiments at all. Admittedly I only play a childless couple (for now) but all they do is feel happy and comfy because they're in love and close to eachother. I don't even notice that it's "on" most of the time, they're just happier than they used to be.

Of course they have matching (2 out of 3) traits, which with Sentiments provide a happy boost, plus Best Friends (also happy boost), plus Soulmates (happy boost)...

No mods at all for me, and it was happening with my 'independent' toddler. However, there did not seem to be any trigger to it - she practically woke up with it one morning. And I agree that it started after this week's patch. I wouldn't mind it if there is a real reason for it, such as her mother helping her with something instead of letting her do it herself, but if that's the case, the sentiment should be better-described.

"Nikkih;c-17731511" wrote:

"justdancerebecca;c-17731464" wrote:

"Nikkih;c-17731318" wrote:
I would say although I can understand why your bit annoyed, it is rather realistic, toddlers in real life get upset of simplistic things, they are babies, they dont understand emotions yet, that gets taught to us through time how to control them, learn how too know reason aswell, toddlers take tantrums when things dont go their way or they cry if they get told not to do something, its realistic game play that most of us asked for, chaos is realism I'm sorry ? and realism is also not having the ability to control everything

I understand, I've worked with preschool/kindergarten children years back, and I get how reason and logic have to be developed and at the time are not all there, believe me, and thank you for the explanation honestly. It's just...what bothers me about it is that it lasted her entire toddlerhood without waning a bit, and it got to the point where it made her own life completely dysfunctional and hindered (well, pretty much stopped) her ability to gain skills as a toddler, and generally interact with the world. I have yet to meet a kindergartener not being able to function in class actively and are constantly crying over being disciplined for spilling paint on the floor when they were 2, not to mention I still have no idea what mom could have done to trigger this.

The whole toddlerhood ?, well if that's the case the developers need too atleast shorten down the negative emotions for toddlers a bit, that is a bit much if it lasts that long, maybe only a few hours in game time of the toddler feeling hurt, or maybe when after an adult sim told the toddler off for making a mess for example , giving them a cuddle or playing with toys with them gets rid of that sentiment and replaced with something nice @QueenMercy @justdancerebecca