I found a Wild Grow Fruit tree

"KeyserFn;14700866" wrote:
Well I tried that suggustion about moving my family out and back in my plant disappeared which means I have to start all over .Which stinks but whatever

Hello.
I am sorry that the plant disappeared :( Did you save the game after they moved home.? If you did, try rolling back your save game file to an earlier version, before you moved your sims to another home. These links explain how to do that.
http://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/783120/how-to-roll-back-your-save/p1
https://help.ea.com/en/article/how-to-restore-a-previous-saved-game-in-the-sims-4/