Please help cannot load households for weeks

Try moving the whole mods folder to another place, delete the localthumbcache.package and then test to see if the issue remains without mods/cc there.

All households load when I remove the mods folder entirely, I have also deleted the localthumbcache.package, what do you recommend? And thank you in advance for your time and help.

 You will  need to test to find out what mods/cc are causing this issue. This thread explains how to test  for broken mods/cc as well as a link to the latest Broken mods/cc thread after the latest patch 
https://forums.ea.com/discussions/the-sims-4-mods-and-custom-content-en/mod--cc-issues-start-herepatch-1-118/5035292

Some households are loading with no issues, so mods are all fine. I have Better TMEX installed which alerts me to mods that need updating. I moved my Sims household out of my main lot and everything works as normal. I also emptied the house and then moved my family back in and the game loaded,  when the house unfurnished. It appears to be a lot related issue, do you have any advice regarding this? Am I correct in thinking EA are aware and are working on a fix in the next update? Thanks again for your help. 

kemionline​ Did you delete any cooking mods but still had food from those mods in that lot? That would be the one likely mod-related cause given what you're describing. There's no bug report related to any specific broken lots, but bug reports aren't valid if you still have mods anyway.

I removed all food related mods (by Apricot Rush). Still experiencing loading issues. Lot issues involve endless loading.

My issue could relate to this:  https://youtu.be/AqMNLYYUOqg?si=nMVIEz7k5moRLHVB

Any help would be appreciated and please let me know if you can see any issues from the screenshots attached. Thanks again.

kemionline​ Put the food mods back. See if you can now load the lot. Removing food mods can break lot loading if you don't first delete all food that's on that lot or in those Sim and household inventories from that mod. So far, there's no evidence that the save itself is broken. 

This didn't work, still no luck, I cannot access the inventory either. I cannot save the unloadable lots to my library which is the biggest concern, I do not want to lose all my progress. Error reads (Server error. We could not process this Gallery request. Please try again later). If I could save all lots then I could bulldoze lot and start over by replacing the lot again from my library. Please help.

kemionline​ Inventory issues are mostly due to having an outdated version of MC Command Center. Do you still have mods in when you're doing this? See Broken and Updated Mods and CC 

For lot-saving issues, start at the Gameplay Issues forum.