hiii thanks for the replies so far 🙂
i have tried with your suggestion, of removing a couple packs, and did sadly did not help. So i tried removing all packs and opened a new save, and it still didnt help. So now im trying to repair the game for a third time, but i see other people having the same issues, this isnt a common bug with the new updates?
hiii so i read some of the other threads and one suggested resetting your game, and it has helped! it looks like one of my packs or my saves has a corrupted file and now need to figure out which specifically, but it works now!
i followed another way of doing it, i guess i didnt do it correctly the first time i follwed
https://help.ea.com/en/help/the-sims/the-sims-4/backing-up-and-resetting-the-sims-4/
this time and it seems to have helped, honestly not sure how it worked but suddenly my sim was using the bed and showering without being stuck in infinity
