I continued to have problems for several hours last night. After signing out of Origin, rebooting my computer, and disabling my firewall, I tried again. (I also deleted a recent download unrelated to Sims 4 at that time.) When I again, attempted to download the update, it did download, but did NOT stop at 100%... I actually got as high as 130% download with no sign of the update actually installing. After a 3rd sign out of Origin, another computer re-boot, and turning my firewall off again, I was able to install AND download the patch successfully, but not without having to pause the download several times once it reached more than 100% installed. The pausing, in effect, backed up the download to a previous point.... say 80% installed, and resume from there until it reached a 100%+ installed point. Again I would pause the download, and it would revert to a previous download point of.... say 85%, this time. Through frequent pausing and resuming I was able to successfully download the update, and installing once the program stopped at EXACTLY 100%.
This shouldn't be this difficult. ☹️