No family events since last update

for the elder family event, your active sims must have career story to interact with the elder.

for the toddler.. yeap it happened to me too. in the morning I have 1 baby 1 toddler and 1 child but only the baby have family event, the toddler and child only have birthday sign. but when the toddler level up to child, there is no family event like previously usually do. so I am not sure whether I can finished the traits for my new child hehehe.