He was right where I left him. In the cafe. LOL! 
@nycbigl hello 😊
Thanks, you're very kind.
Here's an idea: make temporarily passive one of the family members. Create a new Sim and use this Sim to establish a relationship with Erebus Serenity so they can marry. In this way you will get your Sim back home.
This is very important! If you don't want them to continue married, don't divorce them while he is passive because he will be automatically removed from the household. Both Sims that are going to divorce must be active so they keep active after the divorce.
Hi Salixcat👋
Yes i have a suspicion it was the Sts event that might have triggered this.
Hi All 👋
This is the 4th day my Sims Valentina Edgewater has been missing after I made her passive. I followed the instructions of the 3 EA Tech but they just gave me a run around. I still can't find her anywhere. The last event with her was at her home at Yamachan's house.
She's already at level 5 relationship and the fiance of my Malkom. I thought she won't disappear once i establish a few of her hobbies, careers and relationships when i make her passive but turns out the same. It's depressing since i'm an avid player and not only spend time but also money for a few offered packs. I hope i can still get her back even if i have to start from 0 on all her stories.
This happened to me 2x in different times quite some time ago but i was able to see my missing sim downtown and get them back. Since then, i seldom use the passive thing. However, this is different... She's really gone! 😖😫😭 Do you think after the STS, i could get to see her roaming around town again? 🥺
I’m sorry to have to say this but I lost one of my Sims several months ago and he never returned. He was about 8th generation, so an adult child of one of my Sims in a long line of Sims. I had made him passive about a week earlier; but I really liked him and intended to make him active again soon - I was just developing a storyline for his wife. Needless to say, I was very upset and complained to EA but the response was flippant - “he’ll show up!” Which only made me more angry. Now if I want to create a storyline for a spouse, I try to do it in a few hours. It’s a serious glitch which EA doesn’t seem interested in fixing. A few days ago another sim (13th generation) disappeared but this one did show up the next day. I’m still trying to get the two Sims to the point where one of them can propose. They already have a child together.
