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Unfriending Etiquette

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  • brickevand408
    1822 posts Member
    edited May 2014
    I keep forumregulars and want only forumregulars so if there is a inactive friend i replace him for a regular :P
  • claytonron203
    61 posts
    edited May 2014
    I usually wait 1 lvl before I give them the boot. Since today is lvl 41, anyone that is INACTIVE lvl 39 gets dumped.
  • 1nbxfan
    183 posts Member
    edited May 2014
    You are over thinking it. I have no issue dumping non players or people who aren't overly active. I clear house mostly during events as I'm looking for like minded people who play and help out. I don't give a second thought to dumping people.
  • baddazoner
    1006 posts
    edited May 2014
    1nbxfan wrote:
    You are over thinking it. I have no issue dumping non players or people who aren't overly active. I clear house mostly during events as I'm looking for like minded people who play and help out. I don't give a second thought to dumping people.

    likewise.. we add people to boost our FP points and get things in events faster having nothing to tap makes the neighbour useless

    they are very easily replaced.
  • feelin_irie_685
    151 posts
    edited May 2014
    I really only do this if I need space for another friend and someone has clearly not been playing a long time or they neglect their tone for long periods, no design or something just clutter but Loy's of these friends been around a long time try to keep a few open also
  • Vs1976
    875 posts Member
    edited May 2014
    I wait 2 to 3 weeks before deciding if I want to delete a friend. If the person has a great town, I might wait an extra week or so, otherwise I move on.
  • BlakeC02309
    96 posts Member
    edited May 2014
    I usually go AT LEAST a week of inactivity before I fully commit to an Unfriending.. At the moment though, I have 5-10 friends that are inactive but I'm not going to unfriend because I'm sure they are probably still locked out of their towns with this glitch that is still lingering,.. Like many other people have said! Heheh!
    8) 8) 8)
  • Ningyo42
    1465 posts Member
    edited May 2014
    I'm usually at the 2-3 week mark, sometimes longer... But usually not. :) At a week or so, like lots here said, they could be on vacation/holiday. Even if you have your device, you might be too busy to use it.

    Anyway, I deleted a few people recently, so I'll be adding more soon.
  • gabsnz584
    14 posts
    edited May 2014
    I wait and seem to see a pattern of people not playing for a week then two weeks then I delete them ,I have a few places left on my friends list as I deleted those who stopped playing ,as it is time consuming for myself to have 5 town that have nothing to tap ,I do like having players of all levels as I look at there progress as I visit ,I seldom tap and dash :lol:
  • Mess911
    68 posts Member
    edited May 2014
    It's interesting how this game appeals to and enables the varying degrees of OCD nature in some people. Lists, inspections, standards. I somewhat enjoy it on that level as well.

    Of course I'm also lazy and undisciplined so it kind of balances out.
  • panopticnic
    1820 posts
    edited May 2014
    It depends. I tend to only unfriendly in events. If I can't get anything out of your town in 48 hours in an event you're gone ( keeping in mind I check three times a day). During none events I don't care. Things usually clear up eventually.
  • Pokelon1970
    311 posts Member
    edited May 2014
    I posted the exact same question a week ago or so...... :mrgreen:

    One thing someone said there was to hide friends that are inactive for a while (it can be either because of the glitch or because of holidays).

    I will now hide them for 3 weeks or so (we do have a lot of holidays in Europe 8) ) and then have a look again. If I see nothing has changed I'll delete them.
  • MrWhiplash82
    766 posts
    edited May 2014
    I have two neighbours who used to be forum regulars that haven't played since the Valentine's update. I can't bring myself to delete them.

    When it comes to neigbours I added randomly, I don't hesitate to delete them if they haven't played in a few days and I get requests from other players (especially forum regulars). Maybe they are on holidays, but they'll find new neighbours easily once they're back.
  • peppers2ndmo
    247 posts
    edited May 2014
    mwdalton wrote:
    FeeJay1111 wrote:
    I was unfriended in less than a day.

    Sent out a few friend requests yesterday afternoon. By bedtime all had replied. When I visited Springfield this morning 1 had left :-o

    Was it something I said????

    :!:

    Maybe they were friending people, visiting for the points, then unfriending them, and replacing them with more friends to get more points...

    That strategy doesn't work, as there's a limit on the number of FP one can earn each 24 hours. It's better (and much easier) to have a full neighbor list of active players, rather than to keep adding and deleting players.

    For the original poster, my question to you: do you always have buildings available to tap? I have deleted a few neighbors over this issue...I can see they play regularly, but I've not found buildings to tap, even when checking back several times later in the day. Or there will be one building, and I'll need to return two or three more times to tap again. Just remember, the more friends you have, the more buildings you'll need to accommodate them. My advice is to build a neighborhood of houses, so your neighbors can visit successfully. If you are short on cash and time, build brown houses as they are inexpensive, take only 12 seconds to build and regenerate in only 5 minutes after you clear the handshakes. And be sure to clear your handshakes often!
  • Corrcorrcorr
    1139 posts Member
    edited May 2014
    Before the eastern event I didn't delete anyone but I did notice that some neighbours towns are always empty. After the Easter event I noticed that one hadn't played for six months.. So he went. Now I wait for a month ( if it's an old neighbour ) but if it's someone I resently added and they haven't already visited me or played at all for a week, they are off my neighbours list.
  • theslayer369
    2002 posts Member
    edited May 2014
    I wait about six weeks. but I aso check when they last logged in. If I see they've been logging in but not visiting my town then they go straight away.
  • Mumble_Taker
    180 posts Member
    edited May 2014
    As long as I can tap something I'll keep you as a neighbor. If there's nothing to tap and you haven't signed in for over a day then you're deleted. I've been lax on this since the post easter update mishaps but once the holiday weekend is over (tuesday morning) I'll be deleting inactive people again.
  • neuroheart
    8132 posts Member
    edited May 2014
    There are certain neighbors I won't delete. There are forumites (and former forumites) who have been extremely kind to me, or have just been consistently great neighbors, and I would feel bad about dumping them. There's actually one who I currently cannot visit because his town crashes my game, and I still wouldn't delete him. There's also my BF, who I of course wouldn't delete.

    Otherwise it depends on events. If someone regularly disappears, they get a week. If someone disappears during an event, they get a few days, bit longer if they're a forumite. If someone played regularly and then disappears and it's not an event, I'd give them a month.
  • shawn59736
    540 posts Member
    edited May 2014
    If I visit their Springfield for a week straight and I find nothing to tap I check to see if they are still playing. If it says that they haven't played in over a week, I delete them. I like to keep lower leveled players so they can see the things I've earned/bought. I remember visiting other players and starting my " bucket list" of things I wanted to have. I'm sure EA likes the idea of "stuff jealousy" that's how they get new players to buy donuts. On that note, I'm a few shy of 100 friends now due to deleting non- players. Anyone who plays every day is welcome to friend request me.
  • drumnman
    1475 posts Member
    edited May 2014
    neuroheart wrote:
    There are certain neighbors I won't delete. There are forumites (and former forumites) who have been extremely kind to me, or have just been consistently great neighbors, and I would feel bad about dumping them. There's actually one who I currently cannot visit because his town crashes my game, and I still wouldn't delete him. There's also my BF, who I of course wouldn't delete.

    Otherwise it depends on events. If someone regularly disappears, they get a week. If someone disappears during an event, they get a few days, bit longer if they're a forumite. If someone played regularly and then disappears and it's not an event, I'd give them a month.

    Oh no! I hope it's not my town crashing your game!

    I give 2 weeks before I start looking to delete, and that's only if they're non-forum folks. If forum folks go away for a while, I'll send them a PM to see what's up. :)
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