Can't Disable Crossplay

For weeks now I've noticed crossplay with PC has been happening. It's incredibly toxic. I'm on Xbox one S. In Mixtape mode, a couple PC players will get to 50 before the console players can even get 5 kills. Tap strafing, hacking, aim bots. It's insane. I'm lucky if I can even suicide into someone with everything I have to just do one damage to their foot before I get half clipped from the other side of the map by an apex predator with an SMG. 🤦‍♀️ (I've never even passed gold BtW, for reference). 

I can't turn off crossplay either. It's greyed out in the options. I can't access it anywhere on the internet either.  Not on EA or Apex Legends website. 

Not sure if this is a bug or not. 

Also, this is just about 1 of 793,241,491 other bugs happening tith the game right now. But this I'm definitely quitting over. 

If every SINGLE game is like this how in the world is any ounce of fun to be had 🤦‍♀️