@Back2skooldaze No, there's no requirement for your EA accounts to have the same password as your console account. In fact, it's likely more secure to have separate passwords for each account.
For your issue, I think there's might be an account mixup. Most people use the same EA account for each console account, but there's no requirement to do so.
I think that might be happening here, for example I see on your posting EA account there is a linked Xbox account, but there isn't a linked PS account.
What you can do is go to ea.com, then log out. You can then log in using the PS login option. This will get you onto the appropriate EA account. You can then go to https://myaccount.ea.com/cp-ui/aboutme/index?errorCode=15900&gameId=ebisu where you can find the relevant email, and you can initiate a password reset.
Thanks.