@Nammer604 You're not alone. Over the last couple of years I've posted several clips of the issues goalies have on what should be trivial shots or how they handle loose pucks around the net.
More and more it feels like close games aren't decided, win or lose, by which team makes a mistake or a great play. They're decided by which team benefits from the wonky game mechanics, especially goalies. And it's not "frozen water slant", it's just random. It makes a lot of games feel unrewarding even when you win.
But there's little we as players can do other than continue to point out instances where the game doesn't appear to be working correctly and hope the developers will take note and continue to improve things.