You act like that should excuse your hypocrisy. If you're so concerned with the integrity of the gaming community and it's image then maybe you should not include the worst swear words into a game's scripting. Have a little authority over your games and the servers. Stop excusing admins who abuse power and ban people for any reason whatsoever. You allow these admin to control the experience you're supposed to be providing when I purchase your titles.
I am banned from several servers for "abuse" when I know damn well I never engage with people unless they're provoking me, or other players, but because they belong to clans that are buddies with the admin, no questions are asked. I see servers allowing certain people to break competitive rules with no consequences while banning other players for calling it out. At what point does EA do anything about this? They don't, they just extrude their next title out and continue on. Right to Rebel banned me because I simply questioned their swearing rules. Didn't provoke it, or swear, only questioned it, and I'm immediately banned, now I have a third party in between me and the promised experience from a title I purchased.