So guys, I found a fix that works like a charm but it has to be done every time before you start the game.
sorry if the instructions are not super exact, I use German origin so the exact wording may be different.
1. go to your game library in origin
2.right-click on the battlefield 1 logo
3.go into settings and there press on the synchronization tap
4.deactivate synchronization with the cloud
5.close origin and open file explorer
6.go to C/user/username/documents/Battlefield
7.delete all the files (no worries, they are still in the cloud, multiplayer stats are not deleted)
8.enter the game, adjust brightness
9. skip intro video with space
10.press esc and quit to enter the menu
11. play multiplayer
