Game asks to use Steam to update on Xbox?!

So I started a driver career on my Xbox one upstairs as I can’t load the my team save from my series s. Then I go downstairs to play the my team game but no, can’t do that because the driver save from my Xbox one has overwritten it and it’s gone. Completely gone.  So I go back upstairs to see if I can play my driver career but no I can’t do that either because I get the incompatible save message. So basically I can either play on my Xbox one OR my series s, but not both. Thank you EA and Microsoft for taking my money and completely shafting me. I’m not sure what you have done to the game for it to start doing this as I could play on both consoles at launch hut you really need to sort this or start preparing to give people money back. Not good enough.