I agree that players should have more control, especially in modes like Play a Friend where you’re just trying to enjoy the game your own way.
Home Field Advantage would be a nice option to have in more modes instead of being restricted. Even if EA doesn’t want it enabled by default everywhere, a simple toggle would give players the choice.
I feel the same way about injured players. I understand keeping real-life injuries reflected in certain competitive or simulation-focused modes, but there should be an option in casual modes to use the full roster if both players want to.
More settings and customization would solve a lot of these issues. Let the players decide how they want to play rather than completely locking features or players out.