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That doesn't sound like fun at all to me, let's gets this fixed.
First, do you have Quick Presentation set as your presentation settings? We've detected an issue causing head to head matches to fail when players have changed their presentation settings to Quick Presentation. We're actively working on resolving this issue. At this time, we recommend players do not change their presentation settings.
Second, have you tried these connectivity steps below aside from the router adjustments from your end?
Basic Connection Troubleshooting
https://help.ea.com/en/help/faq/connection-troubleshooting-basic/
I'm experiencing when people quit on me or it says connection to your peer has been lost I'm getting the L. This has happened to me the past 5 games online. Every time is does this it's saying that your peers connection is having difficulties. It's not even my connection that's the problem.