I'm on the same page as @TTZ_Dipsy. Online ( EASHL in particular ) is in the worst place I've seen it since before the introduction of the skill stick. Goalies are incredibly weak in scenarios where they should be strong ( eg extreme-angle short-side shots ). Defensive tools are terribly inconsistent and in cases like stick-lift just flat out terrible.
The consensus on my club is that the flaws in NHL 23 have given us a highly frustrating game experience where most of the time, win or lose, it feels like the team that wins does so because the broken mechanics went in their favor and not because they were necessarily the better team. "We won because their goalie gave up two goals on shots from the corner and put one in his own net trying to cover a loose puck." or "We lost because our AI winger took three unforced penalties", etc. Yes, there are games where we just outplay our opponent and win or get outplayed and lose, but the majority of the games feel like we just have to hope it's not our goalie giving up a few weak goals or its not our poke-checks that just act like passes for the other team. Wins don't feel rewarding and losses are frustrating when it all feels arbitrary.
Top it all off with EA feeling like gameplay is fine as it is so no tuners or gampleay updates are necessary and there's not much to look forward to with this game. Last night around 8 PM EST we spent 15 minutes searching for an EASHL club 3s game with cross-play turned on. We don't normally have those kind of wait times until the dog-days of summer. The game's only been out two months and it feels like it's already dead.