Good sir, are some of those clips from HUT?
A few things here. In competitive 3's, 5's, 6's in WoC, no one with the puck is going to skate down the boards like you do and gently curl right into a stick. That puck is either going to be ripped with speed back to the point or around the boards to the other point. Or, in most cases, that forward is going to dance in the corner with elite edges and see if you get impatient, chase, and rip it short side over the goalie's shoulder when he beats you if you bite too hard.
Also, there's no way you're running anything close to Wheels here. The speed looks wrong. There's no way a D-man is matching a player with Wheels holding DDS out. I run a PMD with Stick Em Up, Wheels, and 96 Speed / Accel not to get blown by. And if you feel like getting blown by, you use DSS skating down the ice like that.