can't travel with partner?

Might the other sim be pregnant or going through a different kind of transition (aging up, dying, occult related, only recently returned from a different trip and is in a cooling down period) at the time?

Is NRaas Traveler in play?

oh yep that was it. as soon as i made her a selectable she shows up.
i'll just have to make her an npc again while on vacation :)

"McTosh;c-17945687" wrote:
now to find some good custom worlds to use as 'vacation' worlds :D

What kind of vacation is your sims looking for? I can look through my favorite worlds post the links for you.

I'm not sure what you have for expansions and store content, so I'll just share a few of my favorites

for sun & fun I recommend
A Child's paradise: https://www.thesims3.com/assetDetail.html?assetId=7623405

For cultural travel try Barcelona
https://thesimscatalog.com/sims3/downloads/worlds/large/barcelona/

https://www.thesims3.com/assetDetail.html?assetId=7674882
Wild Wild West is a fun little spot to

https://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/965007/tokyosou-a-tokyo-inspired-japanese-world
Toyko Japan if your wanting some foreign travel =)

https://nilxis.tumblr.com/post/116752688186/this-is-a-new-version-of-saaqartoq-updated-with#:~:text=Saaqartoq%20is%20a%20quiet%20town,untouched%20places%20in%20the%20world
Alaskan vacation world

"igazor;c-17945596" wrote:
Might the other sim be pregnant or going through a different kind of transition (aging up, dying, occult related, only recently returned from a different trip and is in a cooling down period) at the time?

Is NRaas Traveler in play?

nope none of that, and yep ofc :) but then all nraas are in play :p

the only thing i can think of is i always have them set as an NPC. im gonna try making them selectable and see if that does it

now to find some good custom worlds to use as 'vacation' worlds :D

"GraceyManor;c-17945701" wrote:

"McTosh;c-17945687" wrote:
now to find some good custom worlds to use as 'vacation' worlds :D

What kind of vacation is your sims looking for? I can look through my favorite worlds post the links for you.

a nice variety, sun & fun. some for relaxation, some for the culture etc

i'll take a look! thanks :)