Xbox 360 - First match of the day OK, then cycles through the 10 server connection attempts

lucky or not for some of you that have played it........... I have gotten as far as connecting then the black screen with the thinkin circle on bottom right and time out every time.... damn it I had the **bleep** with bf4 cause of this rubbish and bought this game and its even worse I havnt even played it...... insert much profanity here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!