So sick of these children pause glitching me constantly

Is it just me yo? It’s crazy man it happens so much to me sooooooo much man can’t go a day wothought sitting in the pause menu for an hour cause some brat can’t take an L like a man. When I get whooped man I take the L I’m not trying to pause no one it’s rediculous that ea refuses to fix this issue. And I say refuses because that’s what it is. They should be able to handle this it’s out of hand and ruins the gaming experience and just makes me not want to play online but Ofcourse you can’t really excel if you don’t. Just frustrated men I really wish ea would address this FINALLY!! It’s been going on for years ea show you care and fix this!!!!!