Product: The Sims 4Platform:PCWhich language are you playing the game in? EnglishHow often does the bug occur? Often (50% - 99%)What is your current game version number? Up to dateWhat expansions, game packs, and stuff packs do you have installed? all but nifty knitting and eco livingSteps: How can we find the bug ourselves? Be romantic with a sim with almost full friendship barWhat happens when the bug occurs? Sim rejects advances despite having good relationshipWhat do you expect to see? Sim to accept interactions Have you installed any customization with the game, e.g. Custom Content or Mods? Never used.Did this issue appear after a specific patch or change you made to your system? NoSim is not noncommittal and accepts some interactions but not all specific ask a risqué question is rejected almost every time.

@TheSpaark wrote:Steps: How can we find the bug ourselves? Be romantic with a sim with almost full friendship barRomance actions are scored from the Romance bar. And it's not just as simple as that - there's a whole conversation context score too. High score actions like "Ask a Risque Question" will succeed if you have a good romance bar, or other things like a Steamy Conversation context, or a flirty emotional mood, or trait boosts like Alluring trait.What you're describing is a totally unromantic situation where two friends just walk up to each other on the street and without even saying hello someone asks "Hey I'm not wearing any underpants today!" and expecting a romantic reaction. It's more likely they'd say "back off creep!".What you need is a romantic setup like, taking them on a date, giving them a romantic gift of flowers, showing some romantic intentions with some simple flirts and compliments, both getting in a flirty mood and THEN you pop the risque question.

Ask risque question is a hard interaction for me they only except with a 3 quarter full romance bar anything under that it's always rejected.

Also forgot to mention it's easier to use romance options when the Sims are in a flirty mood let also does the sim in question have the unflirty trait because if they do it's 10 times harder to build romance with Sims with that trait I'm not saying it's impossible but it is harder to romance them.

I get that but they are rejecting everything. Even flirting and asking to be single. They are best friends and in good moods.

@simvasion this is such a good explanation of how things work in game and in life and the underpants -comment made me actually giggle. +1 Thanks for the laughs 🙂 /OT

Sims reject romance despite being full relationship

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Rachelharris31
Seasoned Ace
5 years ago
Ask risque question is a hard interaction for me they only except with a 3 quarter full romance bar anything under that it's always rejected.
Rachelharris31
Seasoned Ace
5 years ago
Also forgot to mention it's easier to use romance options when the Sims are in a flirty mood let also does the sim in question have the unflirty trait because if they do it's 10 times harder to build romance with Sims with that trait I'm not saying it's impossible but it is harder to romance them.
simvasion
Hero
5 years ago
@TheSpaark wrote:

Steps: How can we find the bug ourselves? Be romantic with a sim with almost full friendship bar
Romance actions are scored from the Romance bar. And it's not just as simple as that - there's a whole conversation context score too. High score actions like "Ask a Risque Question" will succeed if you have a good romance bar, or other things like a Steamy Conversation context, or a flirty emotional mood, or trait boosts like Alluring trait.
What you're describing is a totally unromantic situation where two friends just walk up to each other on the street and without even saying hello someone asks "Hey I'm not wearing any underpants today!" and expecting a romantic reaction. It's more likely they'd say "back off creep!".
What you need is a romantic setup like, taking them on a date, giving them a romantic gift of flowers, showing some romantic intentions with some simple flirts and compliments, both getting in a flirty mood and THEN you pop the risque question.
TheSpaark
5 years ago
I get that but they are rejecting everything. Even flirting and asking to be single. They are best friends and in good moods.
crinrict
Hero+
5 years ago
@TheSpaark Is it just that couple you have issues with ? Have you tried flirting with another Sim ? Or tried another couple ?
adduapina
5 years ago
@simvasion this is such a good explanation of how things work in game and in life and the underpants -comment made me actually giggle. +1 Thanks for the laughs 🙂 /OT
crinrict
Hero+
5 years ago
@TheSpaark Are you still having issues with this ?
nickinbigd
Rising Ace
3 years ago
I’m having this issue. Two roommates started as wohoo partners then became boyfriends. Their romantic and sexual interests are inclusive of men. And their romance bar is about 75% and yet they both reject woohoo inquiries from each other.
crinrict
Hero+
3 years ago
@nickinbigd Do you only have issues with Sims that were woohoo partners before ? This thread is older and there's an active thread for ex-woohoo partners here: https://answers.ea.com/t5/Bug-Reports/WooHoo-Partners-become-romantically-involved-and-stop-WooHooing/td-p/11671742

Could you test if it works on another couple that hasn't been partners ?
Lalailalara
2 years ago
This happened to me with friendship specifically with inviting to join household with aghata crumplebottom just says Agathat rejection friendly tsh [ph] in a notification and with lavinia just crushes the game i tried even taking off my cc and still doesn’t work