Unable to be boyfriend/girlfriend when fated mates (also spamming asking)

Product: The Sims 4
Platform:PC
Which language are you playing the game in? English
How often does the bug occur? Every time (100%)
What is your current game version number? 1.90.358.1030 64 bit
What expansions, game packs, and stuff packs do you have installed? All except my wedding stories
Steps: How can we find the bug ourselves? be fated mates and a teen
What happens when the bug occurs? Sim keeps being asked by her fated mate to be boyfriend girlfriend. I say yes. Nothing happens. Keeps spamming. There's no ask to be boyfriend option in romance tab.
What do you expect to see? The relationship bit that they're boyfriend girlfriend. It's not in their profile and he keeps asking
Have you installed any customization with the game, e.g. Custom Content or Mods? Not now. I've removed them.
Did this issue appear after a specific patch or change you made to your system? Yes
Please describe the patch or change you made. high school pack

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I had mods when it happened, i removed them and did a fresh install etc and its still happening.