No Urns/Tombstone for not currently played households

@crinrict hey there crinrict, I do not have Neighborhood stories on as to many sims die all the time, so it would of been old age plus he lived in my old peoples home that I have, so it was defo old age. I was aware he was getting there but I didn't know it was that close and I had the carry on ageing thing on while I was not playing. his urn is not in inventory or the other 2 sims that lived with him inventory,  so It seems he is gone forever, I do no mind he has gone to the other side I'm just sad I didn't get to put in my cemetery, as I know the update allowed for the urn to be left at the front door when you are not there, I know this because it has happened a few times and I have be able to put them in my cemetery.

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i have redited it I hope that is ok

I really hope that this issues is seen and dealt with I feel like this post is left in mid air I see no one else adding too it, is this just my problem?

Now not only do I NOT GET get my aches when sims die when I'm not there!!  but now my sims are dieing even when they are saved and not in auto age, my sim just died of freezing when I wasn't there!

@akulinajenya  my problem is if im not playing with my sims that i allow to to be auto age up play if they die when i go to the house the ashes are not left in the house which they are ment to be to be now, I an unsure how ravenwood works as I do not have this DLC. but I know since this dlc had been uploaded we was ment to have ashes saved in house that was set as your save households, even if they was sent to auto play or not.

@xAutumnAngelxtombs where disconnected from the sims after the Life and Death update just hold a funnel, and you can collect a tomb for the sim that has died during the event. Though I do think the original one is in the sims inventory, but that doesn't mean it can't be changed.  Edit: I mean if a played sim dies or a sim dies on a lot you are currently on the game will generate a tomb or urm.