Crossplay In-game toggle request for Xbox series X

We need an official answer and a consumer-friendly solution to stop the situation right now. Still can't figure out why DICE forces us XBOX players to enable cross play, while the PS5 gamers can just easily turned it off. It should be changed before the official launch day for the standard edition players. My friend from China who are super fans of the MS or XBOX are also confused and stuck in such situation. They purchase the games and buy XSX simply for the need to escape from PC hackers. But now everyone is quite upset and angry at the decision to be forced to enable corss play .It is simple to make it fixed. They can make it like what it was suppose to be in Beta test or on PS5:ADD AN OPITON IN GAME. Or make the cross play option less anti-consumer. It is simple too, just make console players matches with console players like what someone had disscussed before.