@WindowsManTv_CZE So I anticipated the first sentence, but to answer this more general suggestion of finding groups, this isn't about just finding "the right game for me". This is about changing the culture of the BF community, which can be pretty toxic and racist, like all shooters.
@TuskegeeHeirWindowsman isn't wrong though. The issue you want to tackle (not that it *shouldn't* be tackled, i'm actually with you there) requires more than just one game putting in some kind of framework, it pretty much requires internet access itself to be keyed to some kind of IRL ID like passports etc, because if it's digital, it can and will be spoofed (pretty sure the idea behind the TPM reqs on windows 11 is to try to achieve something along the lines of what you're asking for more than it has to do with ITsec or anything else).
And right now, there is a way to achieve what you want as suggested by others (i do this automatically in just about all games now as i'm just tired of the constant flow of stupid over unmoderated voice chat) which is turn off ingame VOIP as a rule, assume chat will be horrid and just try to catch the few times where relevant information is being put out, and find a guild/discord etc where there's clear rules and active moderation.
Some potentially good news for you though, first it should be relatively easy to find a portal server with constant admin presence if it launches with the admin tools "promised", and second I've seen at least one guild so far advertising on this forum with a a code of conduct pretty close to what you're asking for.
Maybe go ping them and see if the community is what it advertises, and you'll get more or less what you ask for via their discord.
Directly implementing what you're asking for is going to be legally difficult in quite a few countries, and damn near impossible in some, so EA/Dice taking that upon themselves is a cost/benefit question that lands squarely in "oh hell no", even if the idea itself probably would make policing the community a lot easier/better.
It's not perfect, and while your idea has merit in theory, implementation is just about impossible unless it's internet-wide, and even then some people are just so blindingly stupid/xenophobic/racist that even that wouldn't stop them from going full idiot on a daily basis.
Much like in real life, the trick is to pick your friends rather than try to eradicate stupid.
(edit: again though, this isn't a long-term solution or "right", but it is what it is on the internet atm. Again, change there has to happen at the root/culturally, not via individual games)
@FringerunnerI'm not sure if I really want to dive into the content moderation debate since that's outside the scope of anything I'm proposing or asking for. I also want to be clear that I'm not even asking anybody to be compelled to hand over a an ID of any type. This is a suggestion of an option to be platform-segregated by age and that's it. Finding something workable for most nations will definitely raise privacy concerns about what data is retained by who and for how long, but that's a sort of logistical detail that comes only after anyone even decides they're willing to take on this problem. I think EA can if they cared. I know it's an expense they don't want. But I'm advocating for me and others who want this problem solved so it doesn't do us much good to worry about EA's profit concerns.
Video games could probably help make the change since you cant discipline anyone even your own kids without fear of child abuse.
You see the videos of people losing there * when they have a bad game or issues....
Cant ground them force them to clean up. But take away the game and they smarten up.
Such a sad future we have
