UNKOWN ERROR // 2:2600J - Game crashes PC

Have been having this issue since 12/11 (did not have the issue during beta)

First i get the "UNKNOWN ERROR // 2:2600J" message upon launch, if its related or not, i wouldnt know, repairing the game, reinstalling and updating the game did not change it.

To the main issue, i hit "play" the game searches for a while, shows its found a server so its counting down, screen goes black, comes back with an revolving animation of my character then it just goes back to menu.. Until todays patch i have managed to load into a match after 1-10 tries (and waiting each time for the search, countdown and animation)

But now i cant join any game in any mode, even the portal server browser wont work, nothing happens when i click the servers.

Hardware:

Intel i7-2600K  @ 4.3GHz

Nvidia GeForce GTX 1070 Strix

16 gig ram

100/100 fiber connection

What i have tried;

Restarting Origin.

Repairing the game (several times)

Reinstalling the game

Running with VPN

Running without VPN

Closing the VPN program even if its not connected

Deleting Origin cache

Updating GFX drivers

Restarting the computer

Power off for several hours

Updating the GFX drivers again

Updating the game (made it worse?)

Edit: After each round i have to click the play button several times again, this was pre patch when i was able to load into a match at all..

Edit 2: Example: https://youtu.be/-0w6lfeOcEQ 

Edit 3-4-5-6: New things i have tried, 

Opening ports in my router

Using Google's DNS

Checked with speedtest and have low ping (6-20, 20 being on the server furthest away i was able to pick in the app) and pretty much a flat speed curve

Tried starting in safemode, the anti cheat wont even start in safemode

Tested during low server pop, around 4.45am my time on a friday morning

Closing Discord

Disabling Nvidia overlay

Disabling Origin in-game

Running Windows memory diagnostic (No faults found)

Powering down pc and pulling main power for 10 minutes

Powering down router and pulling main power for 10 minutes

Edit ihavelostcount:

Did a clean boot

Edit: 

A small update, i have managed to play some matches during the weekend, i took a stopwatch and checked how long it would take to get into a match from the first press of the "play button" until it actually loaded a match, i did not count the number of presses however.

Attempts made during friday mid day/evening CET;

1. 6 minutes

2. 7 minutes

3. 50 seconds

4. 18 minutes

5. 25 seconds

6. 2 minutes 

7. 3 minutes

8. 6 minutes

9. 2 minutes

10. 8 minutes

Each attempt led to me playing a match, each subsequent attempt was after each match. 

As you can se its completely random and i actually can get into matches so the theory about it being on the ISP side seems not to be applicable in this case.

I do not have any problems with high ping issues when i manage to join a match further proving that it isnt my IPS that is "blocking" traffic for the game(?)

I just want to play the game..Please help