Battlefield 4 Ping not displaying in-game, hardware ports?

same problem here. And I'm too inept and lazy to play around fixing it. All I wanna do is play the game. In the words of Sgt Hartman, "Your a killer, not a computer programmer!" Anyway it does explain some of the games I was kicked from and couldn't figure out why. I often just assume it's because they're makeing room for reserved members. I asked in game one time why my ping wasn't showing up, and someone told me it's because I'm a haxor....Simple or automated answers would be helpful.