i found whats causing this problem and its on EA side
after 2 weeks of calling (My ISP, EA Support and another interesting figure: Akamai prolexic) and reading online about pinging and reason why it would time out
i found that the reason for all of these disconnects and ping time outs is because EA uses Akamai prolexic cloud protection service which blocks IPs or even ISPs im my case 3 of my friend have the same problem and they use the same ISP as me and my fourth friend have a different ISP and he is able to play just fine and ping and trace to "easo.ea.com"
so I suggesting everyone who experience these problem to contact EA Support and have them check why Akamai protection service is blocking them.
this info 100% legit checked it by calling Akamai Global Support
