G'day
@Jettubby ,
While I can understand your frustration, it's not truly fair to lump everyone into the same category. I work between 10 - 11hrs a day 5 days a week, spend time with my wife, take care of my home, go out with friends and in my spare time I can still enjoy the multiplayer aspect of the game.
Yes there are those who do not work that can spend an exorbitant amount of time on the game, building up their stats and skills but that should not dissuade you from playing multiplayer. Win or lose, it's just a game at the end of the day and if you happen to be in a server with someone who seems to just be dominating the server, don't allow yourself to fall into the trap we are all guilty of and go round after round trying to get revenge on this person. All you will do is work yourself up and you'll perform worse, just find another server and move on 🙂