CONNECTION TO EA ONLINE TIMED OUT BF5 PS4

REALLY GETTING ANNOYED.  I CONSTANTLY HAVE THE MSG " CONNECTION TO EA ONLINE TIMED OUT.  YOUR NETWORK BANDWIDTH AND/OR NETWORK LATENCY MAY NOT MEET THE GAME REQUIREMENTS FOR THIS GAME.

I have had this problem for over 2 years.  I have reset the router.  I have reset the PlayStation.  I have reinstalled the game digital and disk copies.  I have hard reset the ps5.  I have hard reset the router.  I have opened ALL PORTS to do with almost all EA products.  My housemate plays on the SAME connection with NO problems what so ever.  This is seriously becoming an issue for me now as it will let me in sometimes.... then other times it will register as me entering the game the between 19-20 seconds later it kicks me out with the connection to EA online comes up.   I have contacted EA directly and have been told " its a problem on our end and we are trying to fix it " I was told this yesterday at 18/5/21 around 9pm GMT ( please see transcript ).  To say i am irate is an understatement.  Someone please help.  NAT type 2 43.2 down 4.7 up